My brothers spirit came to me the night he died and said goodbye to me.  The anniversary of his death always has a special meaning to me. If you know someone who is having a hard time dealing with life or see something is a little off; ask if they would like to get a cup of coffee or tea and visit.  It doesn't matter if they are young or old, take time to listen and care about others.  You may be saving a life.   The same with people who are "loners", or those who are being bullied or made fun of because they are different.  Children can be especially cruel to others just to fit in with a certain group of people.  Talk to your children, ask them how their day was and if anything happened during their day.  Chances are they will want to share their day and they may have questions about something that happened. It also works if you notice a change in your childs behavior and you can't pinpoint the problem but something is off.  You can reinforce the childs thoughts about right and wrong during these conversations and how others are treated will naturally follow and how they treat others will be reinforced as well.  You are a blessing.  Peac