Today I want to share story. When I moved out of my ex- husbands apartment with my kids I wanted to affect change in my life as well as the childrens life.  I  was tired of the yelling and screaming as a way to communicate. It took a lot of commitment and communication changes to stop the bad communication habits that we had let grow like a weed in a garden.  I wanted to start a new way to talk and listen to each other.   It was a long process to change the way we communicated with each other and stop the blame game. It also took a lot of counseling and commitment to change.   It can be done.  Are you struggling to communicate with someone you love?  Have a talk with the person. Explain to them that you are not happy with the way you  talk with them and how it turns into a blame game or a yelling match.  Get them to think about how you both have lost the way you want to talk to each other.  Then make a plan, set a date on when you both want to start and have some options for how you want to begin the change.  Lastly, give it time to change.  It won't happen over night but things will start to move into a positive state and start to change.  Good luck and God Bless!